every rose has it's thorn...

...just as every group of girls has a loud, annoying one. Is that not how the song goes? Oh well. It doesn't change my opinion on the matter. I first noticed this in high school and then again in college. It seems that every time I see a group of girls, there's one who feels the need to be loud and obnoxious. And I don't think it's a coincidence. Let me explain. The annoying girl is usually the one who speaks for the entire group using words like "we" and "us" instead of "I" and "me." For example, A guy walks by a table of attractive girls and makes some kind of joking comment to Pretty Girl 1. Pretty Girl 1 giggles and tosses her hair. Obnoxious Girl then makes some typical comment to the guy like, "You know you want us." Notice the first person plural pronoun "us." As I said, I don't think it's a mistake or coincidence. And notice that the girl isn't the one who was spoken to. I think that it is a result of the fact that Obnoxious Girl feels the need to be attached to the Pretty Girls. It's like attractive/popular by association or something. My theory is that this is generally the result of low self-esteem by Obnoxious Girl. And Obnoxious Girl doesn't realize that if she weren't loud and obnoxious, she'd fit in better with the Pretty Girls. Please do not confuse this to say that all loud, obnoxious girls are ugly or that no pretty girls are loud and obnoxious. I've already stated in "wedding day beauty" that attractiveness is often dependent on self-confidence. This is just something I've noticed a number of times within a group of girls.